
The echoes of schoolyard bullying often resonate far into adulthood, and it's a theme that often gets shared in the coaching sessions (for men and women).
For many men, being ostracised or bullied during school years creates deep-rooted patterns of self-doubt and social anxiety that can persist decades later. Even when you feel like you've freed yourself of the oppression of those past educational traumas and found yourself as the man you are today. Those painful memories of exclusion, mockery, or physical intimidation don't just disappear with age - they can shape how we view ourselves, approach relationships, and navigate professional situations.
Common long-term impacts include:
Difficulty trusting others or forming close friendships
Imposter syndrome in professional settings
Heightened sensitivity to criticism
Tendency to avoid some social situations or personality types
Struggles with self-worth and confidence
Reliving past experiences which causes present-day unpleasant feelings
Negative self-talk and self-bullying beliefs
Repressed anger and hurt that leaks out in unexpected circumstances
Whilst coaching can offer a space to air these recurring issues without having to talk too deeply about the hurt, fear, or anger they caused, Nature offers a unique pathway to figuring out and healing from these old unpleasant experiences.
Unlike the hierarchical, competitive environments where bullying thrives, the natural world accepts us exactly as we are. Whether you're hiking a trail, fishing by a lake, learning bushcraft skills, or sitting in the woods on a coaching session with me, JK! Nature provides a judgment-free space to rebuild confidence and rediscover your authentic self.
Outdoor activities and Nature Connection can help because they:
Allow us to set and achieve personal goals without social pressure
Provide genuine challenges that build real competence
Offer solitude for processing and reflection
Provide contemplative moments to process and regulate emotions
Create opportunities for gradual social interaction through shared interests
Reconnect us with our natural resilience

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